Appropriate Expectations |
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A group of preschool students will have a difficult time
controlling their impulses to the extent of Miss Lisa’s expectations.
Asking the group to stand perfectly still with voices off before going
out to the playground is like dangling a treat in front of a group of
puppies: yes, some puppies will control themselves and respond to
commands, but others will pounce and jump and fight for the treat.
Though many older children will be able to stand in line and meet those
expectations this is not always the case. Whether it is due to a
disability or special need, a learning disorder, or an intellectual
advancement, not all students are the same just because of their age.
Instead you must consider the development of the child and the
expectation being set.
It is important for the expectation to match the level of
development of the child when considering classroom management
strategies. For example, expecting meal or snack time in a toddler
classroom to be mess-free is probably unrealistic. Likewise, expecting
school-age children not to talk with their friends during lunch time is
unrealistic. It is appropriate to set boundaries as long as it isn’t
expecting unrealistic and developmentally inappropriate outcomes. The
volume during a school-age lunch time period can be expected to be at a
reasonable level or you can introduce proper handwashing techniques or
clean up routines with the toddlers after meal times. These are
appropriate expectations.
Knowing the children in your care gives you the tools that you need to design appropriate rules, routines, schedules and more.